The man who doubts
himself is twice defeated in the race of life, as he has placed a barrier on
the height he can attain in life. Doubt is the opposite of faith. It kills
initiatives and prevents one from living out one’s dream. Self-defeat is indeed
a sure path to a life of mediocrity.
Many a man has
lost out in the race of life all because of doubt. They defeat themselves ever
before they embark on a worthwhile endeavour. I have always believed that God
created us for a just cause. There is a purpose for our existence on this
planet. Besides, I also know that just as no man is superior to the other, no
one is equally inferior to the other. In fact, all animals are equal. Forget
George Orwell’s view in Animal Farm that “all animals are equal but
some are more equal than the others”. I see that as a mere creation of man to
give room for superiority of one person to the other. The truth of the matter
is that no one is superior to the other!
But as much as I
believe that we are all created equal – black or white, male or female, able or
disable – many of us still face life with a self-defeatist approach. We give up
easily on issues that could have turned our lives round. We allow doubt to
tether us down to mediocrity level. Where we are supposed to soar like the eagle,
we behave like chickens. Perhaps this story will make you understand what I am
saying better.
I ran into a
friend recently at the Department of English, Obafemi Awolowo University,
Ile-Ife, Nigeria,
who was recently recruited as an assistant lecturer. He took me through what
happened at their interview. But what struck me most in his account was how
another friend of ours who came for the same interview screamed when he sighted
him.
According to my lecturer friend, he gave up before the result came out. It
was not a surprise when he rounded off his story that the guy was not given the
appointment. The reason for his failure?
Self-defeat!
This friend is not
alone in this game of self-defeat. So many people have actually been victims of
this. One thing I know is that life is a game. And like any other game, you win
some and lose some. Even when you lose there are still lessons to learn. Why
then do you have to defeat yourself before you begin at all? The more you
defeat yourself before you begin, the more you will keep on living a mediocre
life. So, to shore up your confidence,
you must believe in yourself. There is no other person like you. There is
actually something in you that the whole world is awaiting. Start that project
today, tomorrow may be too late. Remember, when you defeat yourself before you
start at all you may end up a mediocrity in life.